My wife found this article. Worth a read. We have a daughter who will be 4 next month. She is on the Autism Spectrum, diagnosed with Intermittent Explosive Disorder, and she has a Chromosomal disorder that only 5 other people in the world have been diagnosed with. This article hits close to home.
But as was mentioned in another thread on here, this article touches on how the 'system' is absolutely broken.
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