ah the "relax" thing..... never been very good at that part. :-)
unfortunately i still hold a gun like someone is trying to take my food away.
saw that video of the granny. fun stuff.
talked to the guys at slidefire several times along with Bill Akins who is now partnered with them and his "bumpski" device.. lots of wrangling involved in all that stuff.
soon as money gets involved in this hobby it turns into a different animal. thats all im gonna say about that.