I have a daughter. I tell her, "911 is what you dial after you're raped. 1911 is what you should have before they try."
Maybe if he screamed and shouted a bit, it might catch there attention better????? I've been doing that lately,,,,and it seems to work,,,, somewhat.
Hay,,but an ass by any other name,,,is still an ass,,,,,,that's a tough row to hoe and make any progress.