I guess you didn't tell your daughter and her friend the simle firearm rule. "Guns don't kill people. Pissed fathers with daughters do." Seriously, I have been in the same boat for about 18 years. I have 11 going on 12 grand kids, and at any one time I have supported 3 to 6 of them. I had to pay for one's adoption. Have three plus their mother I am supporting now. She is a working teacher who can't make it on her salary, and the father is a dead beat. Would I change it. Not on your life! I would gladly die for any of the kids. Life would be hollow without them. Besides where would I get someone to rake my leaves and shovel snow for nothing? Oops, I guess they don't do that either.