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My estranged grandfather died this week and the funeral was Friday. He was a bad man in general. He went out on my grandma and left her in 1966. He married 4 times in his life and had 3 kids he never really made and effort with any of them.
He sexually abused my Mom when she was young. He never told my uncle anything worthwhile throughout his life. My Mom's half sister didn't even come to the funeral.
When I left the cemetary I asked my 23 year old couisn if he wanted to ride back to house with me. My cousin looks at me says what the fuck is up with this funeral. We didn't even know the man and he never even gave crap about any of us. Then he says what summed it all up "What a fucking looser he was"
This is the first really bad person I've know who died. All of 17 people showed up for the funeral in total and we didn't have enough Pallbarers for the casket.
Just sad as hell! Guys and Gals, learn a lesson from this story. Live life right and treat people well. If you are abusing your kids or spouse, STOP and get help now! If you are a drunk then get help! Nothing sadder then most people at your funeral glad you are dead and they don't have to deal with your sorry ass anymore.
He sexually abused my Mom when she was young. He never told my uncle anything worthwhile throughout his life. My Mom's half sister didn't even come to the funeral.
When I left the cemetary I asked my 23 year old couisn if he wanted to ride back to house with me. My cousin looks at me says what the fuck is up with this funeral. We didn't even know the man and he never even gave crap about any of us. Then he says what summed it all up "What a fucking looser he was"
This is the first really bad person I've know who died. All of 17 people showed up for the funeral in total and we didn't have enough Pallbarers for the casket.
Just sad as hell! Guys and Gals, learn a lesson from this story. Live life right and treat people well. If you are abusing your kids or spouse, STOP and get help now! If you are a drunk then get help! Nothing sadder then most people at your funeral glad you are dead and they don't have to deal with your sorry ass anymore.